Little Gestures on Your Big Day
- First Look
- Sep 10, 2024
- 3 min read
Updated: Apr 1
Your wedding day is all about love and celebration, filled with excitement—and yes, often a bit of chaos too! In the whirlwind of planning, it’s easy to forget that sometimes it’s the small, meaningful gestures that can make the biggest impact. These unique touches can not only warm your heart but may also bring smiles (and maybe a few tears!) to the people closest to you.
Here are some heartfelt and unique ways to add special moments to your wedding day:
Add Your Special Day to Your Veil
Imagine having your wedding date delicately embroidered on your veil, or even tucked away on the inside of the groom’s sleeve or collar. It’s a subtle, beautiful way to keep the memory of this special day woven into your attire. Years later, when you look back on your photos or if your husband wears his shirt, that date will always stand out as a sweet reminder.
A Hanky for Happy Tears
A handkerchief embroidered with a personal note is a lovely keepsake for your mums (yup, you'll be gaining another mum that day!). Whether it’s a simple “for happy tears” or a heartfelt message, this gesture will be cherished by both mums as they witness your big day. Plus, they’ll have a special reminder to keep with them forever.
Letters to Your Bridesmaids
Your bridesmaids have been with you through thick and thin, and what better way to thank them than with a personal letter? You could give them each a handwritten note, expressing how much their friendship means to you, and why having them stand by your side on this day is so special. It’s a small gesture that will mean the world to them!

A Love Letter to the Groom
A fairly common gesture is a little love letter exchanged between the bride and groom on the morning of the wedding is such a personal way to connect amidst the hustle of the day. The groom writes a note for the bride, and vice versa, capturing their emotions and excitement in that moment. These letters can be shared quietly before the ceremony, creating a special memory just between the two of you.
First Look, but with Your Bridesmaids
While many brides do a first look with their groom, some prefer to save that moment for the aisle. Instead, consider doing a first look with your bridesmaids or even your dad. The reactions from those who’ve supported you throughout your journey will be priceless, and it’s a wonderful way to share an intimate moment with them before the ceremony.
Grandparents Signing your Marriage Licence
Having your grandparents sign your Marriage Licence is a touching way to include them in the ceremony. It’s a beautiful gesture to honour their legacy, and you’ll have their signatures on one of the most important documents of your life—a keepsake that becomes even more sentimental over time.
Engraved Champagne Glasses for the Bride and Groom
No, we're not talking about those 'Wifey' and 'Groom' flutes. We mean commemorating your special day with engraved crystal champagne glasses featuring your names or initials? These can be used during the wedding toasts and kept as a tradition to use every anniversary. Each time you bring them out, you’ll be reminded of the first sip of champagne you shared as a married couple.

Jewellery to Honour Loved Ones That Have Passed
For brides who wish to honour the memory of a grandparent or loved one who has passed away, wearing jewellery with their initials can be a deeply meaningful gesture. Whether it’s a bracelet, a necklace, or a charm sewn into your dress, having them close to you on your wedding day adds a touch of sentimentality and remembrance.

Signature Cocktails Named After Your Pets
If you and your partner are animal lovers, why not honour your furry family members with signature cocktails named after them? Whether it’s a “Luna Lemonade” or “Charlie’s Cosmo,” it’s a fun and quirky way to include your pets in the celebration. Another way to incorporate this is naming your reception tables after your pets or family pets instead of using traditional table numbers.
Your wedding day is a collection of special moments, and adding these small, meaningful gestures will create memories that last a lifetime. Whether you’re personalising your attire, sharing love letters, or including loved ones in unique ways, these little touches will make your big day even more special.